I apologize. That was pretty hard to miss.
If it happened as many times as you say, that is pretty hard to dismiss as accidental. If he did go there, then he isn't telling you the truth and you have the right to be upset at that. At the same time, he may be going through a lot right now and may not open up right away. However, if there is dishonesty involved, then you shouldn't have to put up with it for very long without getting straight answers (no pun intended).
As for your emotional state in the midst of all this, he very well may just be bicurious, maybe even bisexual, both of which you both could probably learn to adapt to. If he is one of these, he may not consider it a lie to say that he's straight. He may be more likely to open up if you stay calm and don't push too hard.
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