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Originally Posted by Wulfen  it's way harder to become the lover of a girl that considers you a friend, that to start as her lover in the first place. |
I guess it really comes down to what you really want. Do you want a lover? Or someone you can spend a fulfilling life with?
The two are not mutually exclusive, but I do think one is more important than the other.
It has been said that the secret to success is doing more of what works, and less of what doesn't. Regardless of what the correct approach actually is (as I cautioned, I'm not the best one to consult on
that matter), one thing is obvious: the
current approach is clearly not working. I don't think more of the same is going to yield better results...
I can't offer much, but I think it might be a lens worth at least a look through.
-- Daniel Terhorst