Lauxa, you might want to try taking an improv class. I know you're not interested in performing, but you don't have to; you can just take the class without doing the little show that they usually put on at the end of the eight weeks or whatever.
The advantage is that you learn how to really listen and be present, which is at least half of being funny! I was pretty scared when I went into my first class, but it quickly just turned into a playdate with 5 or 6 other people (all kinds -- including a well-known actress!) We warmed up for half an hour with fun games that are meant to loosen us up and shake off the nerves, then in groups of 2 or 3 you go up in front of the others (not a real stage, just in front of a bunch of chairs) and do little guided improvs. The great thing is a good teacher helps you be funny and relax, she won't let you suck too badly. And even if you suck, the other people in the class tend to be VERY supportive and you'll find yourself supporting the others and wanting them to have fun.
I found that after leaving the class, I was just floppy and loose and relaxed and excited, and it really affected how spontaneous and light-hearted I could be with other people in the real world. I really recommend giving it a try.
Plus: it's really scary, isn't it, just to contemplate it? The triumph of taking on something that scares you is incredible! Really gives you power!
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