i have dated short guys, tall guys, black guys, white guys, chubby guys, thin guys, built guys, guys with long hair, guys with no hair, guys with normal hair, etc etc. you see what i am saying. there's not one external 'thing' that makes me go 'squee.' it's the energy of the entire package, and his physical appearance being attractive to me in some way. not all in the same way.
for what it's worth, i am tall and curvy and pretty. i'm not to every man's taste but i do turn a fair number of heads, even with the extra 30-40 lbs on my frame.
this stuff is all so subjective, it's really hard to break it down to a single attribute or even a single axis within a spectrum.
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