[veranadine]

This is probably more about becoming more comfortable with conversing and being around other people in the first place.

When we consciously or subconsciously feel uncomfortable in a situation it can be hard to be completely relaxed and open.

If you are feeling tense at all and find yourself worrying what you may say next, it is unlikely that you will be at the level of ease from which impromptu humorous statements flow.

I hope that helps.

Blessings,