Originally Posted by supertom
i remember erin saying that the higher self is who you are in the ether, but "ron" seemed confused, why wasnt he able to meet with his higherself??
When a person crosses over they don't immediately merge into their higher consciousness state. This post will explain some of that. Crossing Over
Especially when the death was unexpected, it can take a while for a spirit to even realize what's happened to him.