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Originally Posted by Rose of Cairo  I'm not clear about which reaction would be more aligned with my values and why. If I do X, I have a bad gut feeling, as if I lacked integrity, but I cannot explain why. But if I don't do it, I worry that maybe I'm implying that they are wrong for doing what they do, and that's something I don't think. |
For me, saying, "I get a bad gut feeling when I buy cigarettes, so I choose not to do that" would work. It's not about them, their choices, or anything. It's the act of doing what they're asking you to do.