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Originally Posted by songwriter  Men, the answers I have are disgusting for me...
I already told you I know about body language, I know when I attract a woman, but she says no anyway.
As for the tricks of saying "something", calling "a particular day", I find them disgusting... if a relationship has to be like that, I'm better all alone.
Alone forever. |
songwriter, you're giving us mixed signals. Your thread is titled, "How to find a love partner?" but everything you've said up to this point suggests that what you're looking for is a dating partner. There's a difference. If you want someone to date, I can guarantee you that almost every bit of advice suggested to you will be of assistance, provided that you properly use it. Will it be natural? Probably not - but let's face it...
Dating is not natural.
If, on the other hand, you're looking for true love, my suggestion would be completely counterintuitive: Stop. In my (possibly not so humble) opinion, you shouldn't have to go looking for true love - it will find you. And yes, it will feel completely natural and "right". If it doesn't, then it isn't. Get my drift?
In either case, I really do think you're trying too hard. No, I've never met you, and I don't know every thought that runs through your head or the heads of the women you meet, but I can tell you from personal experience that I've been
much happier when I have simply focused on my life and not made dating or love a goal of mine. And you know what? I feel like women are more drawn to me than they ever were when I was "girl crazy".
Be thoughtful and be optimistic.
You will not be alone forever. I guarantee it.
