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Originally Posted by ns123  Hah, I actually missed that in the original post. I am not too sure many would want to describe their appearance. Maybe that's my limited view. I guess I would not describe myself because:
1. if I did, I would come across as arrogant
2. if I did, someone would probably want to see a picture of me
3. that's how internet stalking starts
(and I have personal experience with this)
It could turnout that way, but then again, it could also turn out this way:
1. I say I'm hot
2. someone says I'm not
What good would come of it?
But as you said, most women here don't really go for the looks but more the connection and personality. If the man is not the extreme side of unfortunate looking, the looks ceases to be important.
P.S.
How do you know if you are beautiful to others? By the amount of guys oggling you? There are some women who think they are beautiful but really are not. And there are many women who are beautiful, but others would consider plain. |
You kindof missed the point. Completely. It is not a question of "hot or not", but rather your
appearance. Like that you're X feet tall, have a hourglass/pear/pencil/something-else bodyshape, like your hair this and that, have Y eyecolor, have a wide mouth, have sympathetic eyes etc. You can mention more than that and also less. (Or justify why you won't describe your appearance. Or alternatively not post at all - that's cool too) It's interesting to maby find out that many women like that a man is, say, 2/3 inches taller than them. Or that a really buff woman likes men that are more or less buff than herself. That kinda stuff is, at least to me, interesting. Don't know about the OP though.
It's not like "I would say I'm an 8, and I like men that are in the ballpark of 7-10"
