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Dannyboy1 · 08-15-2008, 04:55 PM

Okay. Looks do matter. I know your answer. My point is that while it's good for women to think about all the other qualities when choosing a person, it's hypocritical to say looks don't matter. Looks matter just like any other quality matters. Many women lie to themselves and everyone else when they say "looks don't matter" then turn around and obviously drool over a great looking guy. That has to cause internal conflict. It's okay to admit to yourself that looks matter. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. I think most guys would rather women do that than be hypocritical. It's when you judge someone solely on their looks or leave someone because they lost their looks that it's a problem.

08-15-2008, 04:55 PM	#22 (permalink)
Dannyboy1 Banned Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: New York Posts: 1,246	Excellent! Okay. Looks do matter. I know your answer. My point is that while it's good for women to think about all the other qualities when choosing a person, it's hypocritical to say looks don't matter. Looks matter just like any other quality matters. Many women lie to themselves and everyone else when they say "looks don't matter" then turn around and obviously drool over a great looking guy. That has to cause internal conflict. It's okay to admit to yourself that looks matter. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. I think most guys would rather women do that than be hypocritical. It's when you judge someone solely on their looks or leave someone because they lost their looks that it's a problem.