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Old 08-15-2008, 04:36 PM   #21 (permalink)
mncz
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Mmm, not true. I can admit much worse things to myself like my suicidal thoughts and also wishes to kill other people, so something like just being attracted to someone for superficial reasons does not bother me at all. I can be completely honest to myself about being attracted to someone just because he is rich beyond my comprehension, for example. I do not even deny that chances are high that I would be attracted to the prettier person. But I view discussing situations which are impossible in real life as futile - because they are not real!

You are right that looks do matter. But the single fact that someone looks pretty is no guarantee for a relationship. None at all. I already answered your question to the extent of possible reality, and although I know you would like a different answer, I can't give it to you .

PS oh, I just imagined another turn of your scenario: if the two guys were just the same person in different times (like, year before and after), looks would still not be the decisive factor for a yes or no to a relationship .

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