Pretty cool :D
I agree ; the out-loud positive affirmation will eventualy make the compliments sound more normal and natural; like if they really are yours and true.
Another thing I sorta find helps is honestly complimenting other people and enjoying the act. You spend a little time being touched by someone else's skill, beauty or generosity and then BAM you watch yourself compliment them. You see the root of your own actions and the pleasure you can derive from complimenting - why would it be different when people orient compliments towards you?
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