Quote:
Originally Posted by mncz I would choose the one that touches my heart.
Ive had a bald partner. Ive had an overweight partner. Ive had a partner that was 16 years older than me. None of these things diminished in any way the qualities that attracted me to them (and no, it was not money, although I have had a relationship that was motivated only by money as well). In most cases the emotional/intellectual qualities I seek simply exclude not taking good care of oneself, but if a person had them and at the same time was short, bald, and weighed 300 pounds, I know I would not care that much, because Ive tried it and I know I dont.  |
You're obviously a wonderful person, but you didn't answer the question. Which would you choose? They're both exactly the same mentally and spiritually and every other way but their looks. One is incredibly handsome and the other is short bald and weighs 300 lbs. Who would you choose?