Looking on the bright side is always good. If you give positive responses, look for a more positive mood in your SO, and lovingly expect him to respond in a positive way, you are actually helping him do this himself.
You know, you spark off each other all the time. If in your downward spiral, you've been giving him negative responses, it's probably been depressing him even more. Once you start to pick up, you'll be feeding more positive energy back into him and he'll find it easier to have a positive response. It's OK, you can do it, and it'll feed into him anyway.
The best thing I can suggest is to be positive always. Every sentence can be put in a positive and uplifting way. Find new ways to say things so that it's positive. This is a fascinating mind exercise for you. And love always, whatever the circumstances.
LoA? I'm just talking about positivity! This is just straightforward stuff. Strangely similar to LoA... but just common everyday stuff here, no gurus involved!
Joy to you
Hazel
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