Every man I have been in relationship with has had a completely different physique, so I doubt I have strong visual preferences. My current boyfriend is very beautiful, but that is beauty defined by western aesthetic standard. I also think that I perceive him as the most beautiful man around because I love him so much. I would not mind if he would look different or be not that attractive. In fact I fell in love with him before I knew how he looks (two photographs do not exactly count), and I saw him in real life for the first time after we were a few months into our relationship already (cheesy, I know
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When I want real relationship (as opposed to relationship that I seek for improving self identity) I look for qualities of soul and mind. There, being intelligent, joyful, imaginative and understanding definitely win over anything else
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