I think if your mother had been inclined to change her beliefs/values, she would have done so in the past.
I feel that pressuring her to change is definitely NOT a good idea. As a parent, I can imagine I wouldn't respond well myself to my son/daughter trying to change my belief system simply because they believe that their way is the right way and mine is wrong.
In fact, I pretty much resent ANYONE trying to change my value/belief system. I feel that what I believe is right for ME and my loved ones need to respect my decisions, regardless of whether or not they feel the same way. And at the same time, I also feel that it is not my place to try and change THEIR beliefs either!
As alexb5784 suggested, all you can do is live by your beliefs and lead by example. Whether your mother follows or not is entirely up to her!
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