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Originally Posted by mncz  Why can't you disagree out loud?
Why do you think that needs of other people to be right is any of your concern or have more value than what is right for you even if it means disagreement?
Why do you feel like a good relationship with your boss or any other person demands any explanations? |
Yes, let's try to answetr these.
How do we know if our needs and desires are more or less important than the other guys? If we have a disagreement that we keep quiet about; it could be damaging. (e.g. on a large scale there was a disagreement about whether the titanic was safe enough to leave port. We all know what happened there.) Unresolved disagreements cause wars, remember ... does it matter which war, come on? They all are based on disagreements! If we do have a disagreement that needs to be brought out into the open, how do we do it? What is the right way? And do we even know why it needs to be brought up? Do we know how to resolve it. Screw Lieberman's fantasy world, let's answer questions like these these for real.