Hi,Create!
Maybe it is better to spend more time to communicate with your father,not debating but comminicating, try to learn what is his pains and worries. Everybody has his or her own problem , their probloms are sourced from their different experiences and background . So it is helpful to konw what your father has suffered and is suffering, individuals need love and support from others . Your father also need others' especially his daughter's suppport and care. I have this kind of problem with my father , I think the weaknesses on me are all oriented from him, however, when I am growing up , I come to konw my father, I learn more about this pains and unhappy experinces to get known he had faced so many problems to solve , which of them is not controlable and very annoyed . He needed helps! Previously ,when I saw he is in depression , I also looked worried , I was not worried about his trouble (because I am too young to understand throughly ), I was afraid that I myself was influnced by such low spirit. But , forturnately , later on , I communicate frindly and peacefully with my father , Our relationship got better.
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