[QUOTE=The Cloud;225624]Perhaps you could admit to him how you feel, and ask him to tell you when he thinks you are being jealous or insecure. QUOTE]
Sad thing is we have done this and it doesnt seem to be working, it seems like its making it worse and making him think Im more needy. Today he said he doesnt think that I want to change for me, that I am only changing because I think he is going to leave. I tried explaining that, that is not the full truth that yes losing him is the present insecurity, but I hate feeling sick to my stomach when he doesnt answer or out with his friends. I just dont know how to change. I wish it was as easy as not picking up the phone or wanting to call every two mins.
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Everybody talks about the negative aspects of their relationship with their friends - keeps us all sane
If you keep telling someone you are afraid of loosing him, he might start to consider that getting lost is a good idea...
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I know he is going to talk to his friends and I hate that it tears me up inside. and the 3rd point is completely true and its happening.
I am just so afraid of losing everything, which makes me latch on harder.