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ar81 · 08-11-2008, 01:07 PM

To me the most important question is:
How could you make your relationship to transition from "holding things together and glued" to "growing and developing and improving ourselves thanks to each other"?

This is a question you must answer.

As I see it now there is a problem of compatibility of life plans. Or perhaps he is addicted to his hobby.
If it is addiction the problem is somewhere else, an inner pain, a past experience during early childhood.
If life plan is the problem, then there is a problem that is not related to love. But it is serious and needs to be discussed.

08-11-2008, 01:07 PM	#10 (permalink)
ar81 Family Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 2,756	To me the most important question is: How could you make your relationship to transition from "holding things together and glued" to "growing and developing and improving ourselves thanks to each other"? This is a question you must answer. As I see it now there is a problem of compatibility of life plans. Or perhaps he is addicted to his hobby. If it is addiction the problem is somewhere else, an inner pain, a past experience during early childhood. If life plan is the problem, then there is a problem that is not related to love. But it is serious and needs to be discussed. Last edited by ar81; 08-11-2008 at 01:10 PM.