Anand, thanks for pointing me in the direction of your blog post. I think it's definitely a good foundation, but after reading it I found that I really wanted more detail - more concrete suggestions. How exactly would you suggest someone can 'come to a place where you have forgiven any resentments you may have had and appreciate what you got out of that relationship'? How do you 'realize that you are whole and complete on your own'? I understand that these are wider PD issues and whole tomes have been devoted to each one of them, but I'd be eager to read a blog post that specifically addresses one or both of them in relation to a break up.
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