Revenge cames from hate. Hate is accumulated sadness that was stored and rotten for a long time. The only way to get rid of hate is to forgive, and this could be a nice message for him, if you want to ever contact him.
You did not cause his hate and he needs to understand that if he hates it is because he already had hate inside. This could probably come from early years when someone caused some sad experience in childhood. He needs to heal his wounds with forgiveness.
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