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Old 08-07-2008, 09:43 PM   #8 (permalink)
ar81
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Originally Posted by Mewwy View Post
The creepy part is that he would create several email and IM accounts just to contact me every time I block him. I'm afraid that shutting him off (as I have always been doing) would encourage him to stalk me physically...

1. Be silent and block all his contacts 2. Be a ♥♥♥♥♥ and let him realize I would do him no good.

I have been doing the first I guess...maybe he'll learn his lesson if I do the second way. But I'd hate that. Thank you for the post Parthon.
Internet has a very interesting kind of characters: trolls.
Trolls are annoying and they poke you every time.
If you answer to a troll, you lose.
If you argue, you lose.
If you yell you lose.
If you fight you lose.
The only way to get rid of a troll is to ignore him and be as far away as you can.

If he is somehow reasonable and not a troll, you could try an explanation of how he should not waste his life by going after you with you.
If he is obsessed, you could explain him that obsession is not love. Obsession probably came from a feeling of being abandoned by his mother in early childhood.
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