Thanks for the excellent advice. I'm glad I have chosen the path of growth.
I did some (more) honest soul searching, and I have absolutely zero desire for him. Not even friendship. He creates even larger voids. He doesn't fulfill anything. So I can safely assume there's no attachment or need from my side. I don't contact him and never will. He may see the internet itself as a fueling ground, just because I have email and IM accounts and it's convenient for him to track me down...-.-
The creepy part is that he would create several email and IM accounts just to contact me every time I block him. I'm afraid that shutting him off (as I have always been doing) would encourage him to stalk me physically...
That's why I would regard the break up as a karma, if he doesn't let our relationship die and rest in peace. So it's both a safety issue and a being grudged issue I've been feeling responsible for myself...
Thank you again, I will take forgiveness in mind and resolve my past guilt.
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Originally Posted by Parthon  I guess the real question is, do you care enough about him to be the ♥♥♥♥♥ you have to be to get through to him?  |
Ouch this is hard...
I suppose there are only two options if I have to deal with him 1. Be silent and block all his contacts 2. Be a ♥♥♥♥♥ and let him realize I would do him no good.
I have been doing the first I guess...maybe he'll learn his lesson if I do the second way. But I'd hate that.
Thank you for the post Parthon.
