Sincerely speaking, I feel that the problem is in your mind. You have a limiting belief that you need to weed out and weed out right now. I don't feel like you need to care what people think of you. If they dont' like you; IGNORE! That's the motto I love to live by, because in my experience, I have seen one friend walk out the door, yet they were always replaced by 15 others, because I knew what I was worth, and I knew that my purpose was not to please people, but to rather be me. But the one thing I always do, is check that people are not angry with me when they walk out that door, and that they're walkign out because of their own reasons, not a mistake of mine. If the mistake was mine (and it happened a lot), I worked extra hard to return the relationship where it used to be, and thank God, it happened 3 times that the friends (before the fight) became closer friends (after the fight), so that the fight was actually a good turning point in my life. Attached is an article that might help you,
IGNORE INC.: IGNORE The Blues IGNORE INC.: IGNORE Negative Thinking
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