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Originally Posted by WhiteLight  During the past few days I've been observing social interactions in a new perspective, one that could be described as...magnetic. One of the characteristics of being a man is the ability to lead. When I act without hesitation I find myself naturally leading in many social interactions. when I do take initiative, it seems to piss people off (mostly older men with an alpha male mentality, or women who are so used to controlling men).
How am I supposed to be humble when my actions would suggest that I am a natural leader? Could it be that I'm afraid of my own greatness? Could it be that I don't love myself enough yet to embrace my destiny? |
If you find yourself upsetting people consistently when you try and take the lead, you must be doing something to incite them. With a great leader, people WANT to be lead. You can't place the blame solely on the alpha-male mentality. Many leaders have no problem with that. Also, great leaders never call themselves great leaders. I hope you don't take this differently than I mean it. It's not always easy to convey something with typing. I'm just pointing out a couple of things you may want to mull over.