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Originally Posted by songwriter  I'm into your link, and I like to comment all the way, to take it all out.
First I've went on how to know if someone is your soulmate?
Yes, there's a woman I met recently that, since the first moment, I felt more "me" than with anyone, I noticed something special. Lately she told about she reads about Law of Attraction and things like that, and we joke that we may had attracted each other. Quite possible.
We had some freaking similarities, so we can understand other and no-one else, I think.
I bet she was the example of a soulmate for me, and viceversa, but she was already in a relationship! and that stopped it all, but it was great anyway to be friends.
"I quickly learned that she had a boyfriend from high school, though she wasn’t sure where that relationship stood. Her friends at college were trying to set her up with another guy" that has been/is exactly my situation
"I didn’t exactly “find” her. We just bumped into each other. And she was the one who opened the door."
I didn't either, we just worked in front of other "casually".
It seems we think alike a lot reading the end of your post about settling.
Perhaps that girl will suddenly call me to have a weekend together or so, too? 
Or maybe not, but I think I'm not very away from it all. I'm not in flirting with anyone around... |
Hey songwriter,
Thanks for checking out my stories.
There's nothing wrong with being attracted to someone -- you can be honest with your feelings. Though obviously what you DO out of your feelings is another matter, especially in her company. But if she is open to being your friend, why not? It's one thing if she's married, but if it's a boyfriend -- they tend to come and go, you know.
Don't lose hope! You can find the right person to you, when you are ready. If it can happen to me, it can certainly happen to you. Here's one more post that may be relevant -- it's about how we think we know what's going to happen, though we really don't:
Our Best Version | The Formula Fails
I did marry my first girlfriend, and for a while I wondered what it's like to be with someone else. But really, I grew to be really grateful that I didn't go through the turmoils of any romantic relationships ending. The ones didn't work for me crashed and burned all at the beginning, when the pain was probably the least.
Look on the bright side, and work on getting yourself ready for her, whenever she shows up.
ari
PS of course we think alike -- we're both musicians!
