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Clever idea, but how could I do that?
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Take small issues where your parents give you advice that you would consider resonable. When you think that your parents shouldn't infringe in your independence on that issue (even if their advice is right), do the opposit of what your parents advice you to do.
You should take small symbolic issues where doing the wrong thing doesn't matter that much.
By making a symbolic gestures that you just don't follow resonable advice that your parents try to give you, you show that you are in control. It also important to not justify that action with something different then: I did it because you infringed my independence.
Small symbolic actions speak louder than a lot of words.
That might not be the lightworker way
, but it could still work.
In general it is also behavior that makes sense in the mental world of your parents. Some kids just don't do what there parents tell them.
But maybe Alex is also right and you can solve your conflict by telling everybody the whole truth about yourself.