I'm an INFP, in case that matters...
Steve's got an article called "Triple Your Productivity", and another called "Do It Now." Both are excellent, and I think would benefit you a lot.
Re: the partner thing -- sure, if that's what you need. It may just be support, from an honest group of peers. I have a MasterMind group, and it has been a key factor in my business.
I also wrote an article about this, that just might help...
http://monkatwork.com/articles/sumo.htm