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Originally Posted by Dorothy Lite  When you date someone in my country the "default setting" from beginning on is that none of the two have sex with anybode else. A conversation like that is only neccessary if you want to agree on an "open relationship". |
Really? From the very first date? So if a guy asks you out, he is really asking you to be sexually monogamous with him for the time you are willing to date him? That's astonishing to me. In my experience here, it must be made explicit -- commonly known as "The Talk." Until The Talk, I would never assume a date is having sex only with me. Hope, maybe, but never assume.