When you say you knew you really loved her, then why did you try to cheat on her? I mean, you must have known that this would hurt her very much and you might loose her because of that. I think I wouldn't take you back if I was her even though you did not really do it. What counts is that you wanted to do it and it didn't matter to you how much you would hurt the girl of which you claim that you love her. It's only selfprotection to stay away from that kind of "love".
But maybe she's different from me. You might still be lucky, so I think you should try to talk to her, maybe send her a message, to find out wheather she still has feelings for you, too.
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Originally Posted by Angela  I don't know about it being American, but in my view, it takes some dating time before it's a good idea to make a commitment to be sexually exclusive. |
This must be something American... It doesn't make sense to me at all, just like it doesn't make sense to playlife. I expect a guy to be sexually exlusive from the first day of dating, otherwise I'd think he's not really interested in me or my feelings. When you date someone in my country the "default setting" from beginning on is that none of the two have sex with anybode else. A conversation like that is only neccessary if you want to agree on an "open relationship".