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Originally Posted by funnyfish i dont think he sounds like good boyfriend material. there is probably squillions of other guys who are more suitable. how negative is that! |
Hi funnyfish,
you're right, he doesn't sound like good boyfriend material at all! But I talked to him a few times since the initial encounter and he is very positive and fun to talk to... which makes me want to go on at least one date with him if he does call.
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thinking a guy is wonderful simply because he is attentive and kind to me and accepts all my crazy abstract discussions of whatever nonsense is on my mind...
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jaamkie,
i have done a similar thing in the past. That is part of my purpose for dating random guys I may or may not hit it off with, so I can be stronger in my self-love and know my heart more truly. Of course, I don't plan on accepting every offer, just the ones that feel right to me.