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Old 07-30-2008, 11:18 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Wait a sec... you went out with Jane for four months total? And at the very beginning of that four months you made overtures to another woman? At what point did you and Jane have The Talk? (you know, agreeing to sexual exclusivity).

I find it amazing that you would even have The Talk inside of four months together! Even intensely in love, even having known her for a long time, that's an extraordinarily short period of time in which to make a commitment, I think.
What does that "together" mean? So in the first four months of the relationship, people are free to sleep around? Maybe it's some American thing that doesn't make sense to me.

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So it's kind of hard to see how "trying" to cheat early on in dating, even in an intense baby relationship, is anything to feel guilty about. Give yourself a break! And having actual sex after you and Jane broke up --- ! You are a rabbit! You're supposed to have lots of sex when you're single!
I didn't quite understand the first sentence about cheating. Are you saying that it's ok to cheat in the beginning of a relationship?
I'm not sure what to think about having lots of sex when I'm single. It doesn't sound like a very meaningful venture...to me.
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