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Originally Posted by jaamkie  ... that by feeling the appreciation you might see the other person in a more positive light- I agree it is very likely, I just question whether the kinder judgement is necessarily the more accurate one. ... |
jaamkie, I was only winking at you about the "faking it" thing, because we talked about that earlier. I didn't mean to goad you, just to acknowledge you -- I'm sorry if I offended you.
As for the above... just to be clear, it's not the feeling of being appreciated by the other person that has you see him in a more positive light, it's the
recognition of beauty within yourself that makes it easier to see beauty in others. And about the kinder judgement question? I don't know if a kinder judgement is necessarily the more accurate one, but it is sure as hell a more joyful way to date for fun, and to live your life.
