I just can't really imagine wanting to do such a thing- I think most people can't... hence the assumption that it must be coercive/abusive, to imagine two people wanting it at the same time seems so unlikely... I think also there tends to be an assuption of inequal power in a lot of situations- teacher/student, boss/employee, and parent/child is the greatest of all power differential- we tend to assume that under those circumstances free choice is impossible... brother and sister... I have no basis to judge; just can't imagine...
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