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Originally Posted by funnyfish  hello people. ohhhhh kayyyy, im 32, have a 5 year old daughter (her dad and i divorced) im 7 months pregnant with 2nd child (different man) who has a whole heap of problems but is 100% good person. i had a previous pregnancy and had an abortion because of family pressure (mum mainly) i havent told my mum im expecting (though i think my sister has told her, and is now avoiding me) i guess i have to talk to my mum, but what to say? in a way i feel like just cutting her off for making me choose between her and my children. she hasnt spoken to her mother for 20 odd years. or seen her first grandchild aged 6. any insight? what i want is for her to accept us as a family, this just isnt going to happen...help? |
I believe you should just tell your mom you're a grown person now and can make your own decisions.
If you're having trouble with this than I'd ask your self why do I want my mom to accept me. Do I feel there is something missing from me...do I feel incomplete..ect ect ect... just do some introspection to figure out why you feel this way. If you still feel bad than I believe you're out of alignment. There is something blocking you from being the person you truly are. Just keep doing introspection to figure it out...or better yet ask questions either on this board or yourself
Good luck.