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funnyfish · 07-29-2008, 11:57 PM

hello people. ohhhhh kayyyy, im 32, have a 5 year old daughter (her dad and i divorced) im 7 months pregnant with 2nd child (different man) who has a whole heap of problems but is 100% good person. i had a previous pregnancy and had an abortion because of family pressure (mum mainly) i havent told my mum im expecting (though i think my sister has told her, and is now avoiding me) i guess i have to talk to my mum, but what to say? in a way i feel like just cutting her off for making me choose between her and my children. she hasnt spoken to her mother for 20 odd years. or seen her first grandchild aged 6. any insight? what i want is for her to accept us as a family, this just isnt going to happen...help?

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funnyfish Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: surrey, UK Posts: 11	family problems hello people. ohhhhh kayyyy, im 32, have a 5 year old daughter (her dad and i divorced) im 7 months pregnant with 2nd child (different man) who has a whole heap of problems but is 100% good person. i had a previous pregnancy and had an abortion because of family pressure (mum mainly) i havent told my mum im expecting (though i think my sister has told her, and is now avoiding me) i guess i have to talk to my mum, but what to say? in a way i feel like just cutting her off for making me choose between her and my children. she hasnt spoken to her mother for 20 odd years. or seen her first grandchild aged 6. any insight? what i want is for her to accept us as a family, this just isnt going to happen...help?