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Originally Posted by The Cloud  Angela, on a side note, maybe this could help you with future sessions. Create a safe place for the person to be angry, a place where they don't feel they have to worry about yelling or swearing around you. I don't know, maybe you thought that was implicit, but if you make it explicitly stated perhaps that could help people with a lot of pent up anger. That is, if you're willing to put up with it  |
Thank you for that, The Cloud. And I can assure you people sure do get angry and yell and swear when they see the impact old pain beliefs have on their lives and the lives of others! Whoooo-boy do some people need to let off some steam! Some people get really in touch with how angry they are
at themselves for allowing themselves to be run by this old, outdated program.
And once they express that anger (and have taught me a few new good cursewords), people are able to forgive themselves, because they see that it was absolutely necessary for them to go through what they've gone through in order to get where they are. It's perfectly perfect that they have been stopped and ineffective, because it makes available to them grand expansion. Grand expansion can be uncomfortable! Remember growing pains? My breasts grew suddenly from zero to c-cup when I was nine years old, and boy did that hurt like a son of a gun! Also, I quickly grew to be the tallest girl in school right around that time, and I remember my arms and legs being so stinkin' sore as I grew like a beanstalk. Yowch! Now that I am remembering it, I was pretty pissed off at the world, for that and menstrual cramps. Sassafrassssaaa sassafrrasaaa.....grrrrrr.
There's nothing wrong with being angry or expressing your anger. It's a wonderful freedom, and through anger, just like through sadness or confusion or loneliness, being present and accepting of what you feel is a brilliant way to get yourself to a whole new level of loving your life.
Did you feel stopped about expressing your anger when you speaking with me? Do you want to get back on the phone and I'll listen to your growling and cursing? I'm glad to do it, because I know you are working through your commitment to yourself to let go of "I can't win" and to take on creating connections. I see you for who you are: a mad scientist of love.