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Originally Posted by lasti  Cause that's help. Helping somebody to help themselves. That's why forums like these exists and Erin's and Steve's blogs. What else do you suggest? Do a brain surgery to cut everything out that is "wrong" and put new brain cells in in order to get a perfect person? Personal development is about changing oneself and not somebody else. |
It's like just giving people fish over and over instead of teaching them to fish. In one case you feed them once, in the other they can feed themselves forever, right?
I don't get your analogy with brain surgery. I'm for integrating the self, not finding parts of you that are thought of as wrong and trying to deny that.