[Niamh]

Originally Posted by Kazeko

Here is my personal example. My wife can be named "a darkworker". I considered myself "a lightworker". And our levels of consciousness are not very high. To be closer to my wife, I switched my polarity to be aligned with hers. And it was my wise conscious choise. Now we love and support each other and have less conflicts. Besides, I beleive, that the choise of my wife was unconscious. I beleive that as we both reach higher levels, we can keep our polarities or switch them - i.e. choose consciously. The road goes ever on

Thanks Kazeko It's interesting that you chose to switch polarities to be closer to your wife. It caught me by surprise, the fact that you chose love over the path that calls to you. *hearts* In that case, I would guess that in order to strengthen the relationship, the better choice would be to do what you're doing: keeping the balance.

Well, the defining words for me in your initial post are "one of them chooses". Are we talking about a totally conscious choise?

Yes, it is conscious. The one called to the lightworker's path is consciously moving towards it. The one pulled to the darkworker's path is also, consciously moving towards it (mainly because of the need to explore this side, feeling that it is misunderstood).