Quote:
Originally Posted by Stephen  I have sexual desires that won't go away either: It involves three gorgeous women and a four poster bed  ................but there's no way I'm telling my wife. |
Haha. I understand your point, but that's kind of life comparing apples to oranges. Men and women offer very different things, sexually. When you're attracted to men, a woman really can't fulfill that. One cannot be substituted for the other.
I think the OP is like a lot of guys I've encountered. Attracted to men, maybe even gay, tried to be with a woman, fell in love with her and then still has to struggle with being primarily attracted towards men. There's no point in struggling!
Like I've said before, men who are really attracted towards the same sex will think about the same sex constantly, and most end up breaking down and cheating. It's hard to blame them, but they unknowingly put themselves in that position.
DayOne: I think if you don't address your sexuality soon, you'll be setting yourself up for major trouble in the long-run.
There are A LOT of guys in your shoes, so don't feel weird! The real weirdos are the ones that have a wife and kids, hide their sexuality their whole life and then mess around with random guys in public bathrooms and such.
*cough* Senator Larry Craig *cough* That's what extreme self-denial will do to you. You don't seem like you're in that much denial though, so I think you'll be ok.
