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Old 07-28-2008, 07:17 AM   #15 (permalink)
martin
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Originally Posted by Stephen View Post
It's not lying.

Listen. You mom and dad have sexual thoughts about other people: they dont necessarily tell each other or anyone else for that matter.

This is making a mountain out of a molehill.

Accept that you have sexual feelings about other people and live with it.

Open pandora's box at your peril.
There's a difference between just having a thought or a fantasy that comes and goes and having a sexual preference towards men.

If he is truly attracted to men, this feeling won't go away (and apparently it's been with him as long as he can remember). Being gay/bi isn't something you can just brush off.

I guess only he really knows if this is just a thought or if he's truly attracted to men. It sounds to me the latter, though.
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