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Originally Posted by Stephen  In my opinion it would be most unwise to talk to your girlfriend about this. The risk of losing her would be very high.
It's easy to give advice of such paramount delicacy and importance when the fallout doesnt affect you.
Listen: sort it out in your own head, and keep it there.
How many guys fantasize about having sex with colleagues or whoever (!) but you dont run off and discuss this with your mate. Well, you do, if you want a divorce. Guess what: everyone has thoughts, many unspeakable, bouncing about in their heads. That's life. We also are smart enough to keep them there.
Good luck and remember when it's out there, it's out there. |
I disagree too, lying kills relationships. NO relationship can grow with trust and lies break down that trust.