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Stephen · 07-28-2008, 02:05 AM

In my opinion it would be most unwise to talk to your girlfriend about this. The risk of losing her would be very high.

It's easy to give advice of such paramount delicacy and importance when the fallout doesnt affect you.

Listen: sort it out in your own head, and keep it there.

How many guys fantasize about having sex with colleagues or whoever (!) but you dont run off and discuss this with your mate. Well, you do, if you want a divorce. Guess what: everyone has thoughts, many unspeakable, bouncing about in their heads. That's life. We also are smart enough to keep them there.

Good luck and remember when it's out there, it's out there.

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Stephen Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 595	In my opinion it would be most unwise to talk to your girlfriend about this. The risk of losing her would be very high. It's easy to give advice of such paramount delicacy and importance when the fallout doesnt affect you. Listen: sort it out in your own head, and keep it there. How many guys fantasize about having sex with colleagues or whoever (!) but you dont run off and discuss this with your mate. Well, you do, if you want a divorce. Guess what: everyone has thoughts, many unspeakable, bouncing about in their heads. That's life. We also are smart enough to keep them there. Good luck and remember when it's out there, it's out there. __________________ The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation. (Thoreau)