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Angela · 07-27-2008, 06:49 PM

Great. Now that song will be going through my head all day.

I think that having values in common is a pretty effective thing in a successful loving, long-term, mutually beneficial relationship (LLTMBR). A darkworker and a lightworker are going to find that their basic, most deeply held values are in conflict, for the most part. On the surface it may look like they want the same things, but underlying those desires are values that don't support one another. So I think the relationship can grow, strengthen and survive, but that might not look the way you'd normally imagine when you think about an LLTMBR. It might mean great challenge, hardship, pain, and separation, and that's fine. Not what I want in a LLTMBR, but certainly what some people are committed to, not realizing it's in conflict with what they want.

07-27-2008, 06:49 PM	#3 (permalink)
Angela Banned Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 22,520	Why must I beeeyaaa darkworker in lo-ove... Great. Now that song will be going through my head all day. I think that having values in common is a pretty effective thing in a successful loving, long-term, mutually beneficial relationship (LLTMBR). A darkworker and a lightworker are going to find that their basic, most deeply held values are in conflict, for the most part. On the surface it may look like they want the same things, but underlying those desires are values that don't support one another. So I think the relationship can grow, strengthen and survive, but that might not look the way you'd normally imagine when you think about an LLTMBR. It might mean great challenge, hardship, pain, and separation, and that's fine. Not what I want in a LLTMBR, but certainly what some people are committed to, not realizing it's in conflict with what they want.