[Holistic Star]

Jude, Why do you advertise the same site as our new member Orange? Are you related?

Orange, if that is you - I think you should know that spamming your website address is against the terms and conditions.



However if you aren't orange then here is my suggestion. It sounds to me like you are trying to change your husband. You want him to have a better work ethic and get into the same stuff as you. Unfortunately it isn't that easy. The only thing you can do is change yourself. So do that. He will either be so inspired with the changes in you that he will come along of his own volition at a later date, or he will try to drag you back. However it's your decision to allow that. He will be reflecting parts of you that you have disowned, so think about where you are being negative in your life, and where you are holding back and start work on yourself there. Good luck.