You sound like me, not so long ago. All I can say again is that the road is gonna be long... it's a skill you have to gain. It's not something bout your personality but a skill like playing an elec guitar is.
This has been one of my greatest mistakes, focusing in me... what's wrong with me? maybe I'm not confident, good-looking, funny, outgoing, kind, smart???
That doesn't matter at all, it's only a skill. Actually the strangest kind of guys have girlfriends anyway, cause they got the skill, even if they're morons, cruel, silly, ugly, sheep-minded... it doesn't matter.
It's only trying and trying, and not looking inside yourself. And it's gonna be a long time filled with dissapointments. No trick works but experience. Those tricks are for people who already have had girlfriends and relationships but not for late starters.
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