Originally Posted by meg0135
thanks for the advice everyone. i really apprieciate it
i put my picture on one of the rating sites, and i didnt get any negative feedback thank goodness. i took a risk doing it, because if i found out i was perceieved as ugly, i would probably have been devastated!
most of my problems do lie in self confidence, and also i am not very good at reading body language from guys. i usually second guess myself and dont believe he coud like me. i need to work on that.
Why devastasted? I think knowing the truth is always good, is knowing yourself. It's being conscious of the situation. Kind of knowing your weak points.
Do you think no-one could love your if you were ugly or so? Could you love someone ugly? Have seen anyone ugly with a partner?.
Truth can hurt when you know it, but I think is good to know it, it makes you wiser, you behave according to reality. I write music, and If my music was bad for almost everyone, I would like to know it!, yes, but that's me, give me the truth even if it hurts.