This first problem I see is the thread title...
"I don't feel comfy as a man anymore"
Comfy?
When did being a "real man" ever have anything to do with being comfortable?
When did being a
person have to do with not overcoming challenges and just being comfortable?
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Further more, I have to make sure I don't seem TOO dominant, because that might, again, upset the women around me.
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You aren't dominant, you are "seeming" to be dominant, theres the problem.
That "Might" upset someone? "Might" as in "maybe" as in you actually don't know but are just going to play it on the safe side and stay "comfy"?
How many times have you ever upset someone by being dominant? Actually, whats your definition of dominate?
I dance, In fact I'm going to a dance tonight, I'm going to be dominant throughout the entire dance, in fact, I'm not going to let the woman lead ONCE. I'll let you know how it turns out.
Could you give us examples of when this Male/Female inequality has effected you? Other than of course giving you a reason not take risks.