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Old 07-25-2008, 12:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Alison Jenkins View Post
I myself had abandonment issues and my experience was that the fear was actually far greater than the pain of actually facing it. Sure there will be tears but it is very healing and then you can move to a place of acceptance. When you are ready you will move forward to that place in your time, not anyone else's. It all begins with self awareness and you do recognise that abandonment issues is at the heart of it all.

Alison
Thanks Alison,
I have had the same experience that fear was the more painful of the emotions. I have not really delved into abandonment yet, but I am coming up on it because I know that holds a lot of my deepest fears. G
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